It’s basic. Everyone wants to be better, do better, look better, feel better. But when we look back at 2018 and our grand resolutions, we see missteps, unfulfilled goals, or outright failures. So at the front end of a new year we hunker down and grit our teeth and set resolutions and goals for a new year. But by the end of 2019, we’ll go through the same ritual. Why do resolutions seem like…